Teens
Encourage open conversation about online experiences
Last updated 26 May 2026
Guiding Responsible Digital Independence
The teenage years are a time of growing independence and identity exploration, much of which now happens online. However, the digital world can also expose teens to online harms. Your role now shifts to becoming a trusted guide who helps build their judgement and resilience. Respect their growing independence while maintaining your supportive role through ongoing guidance and conversation.
5 Ways to Support Your Teen in Navigating the Digital World
1. Engage Often About Online Experiences and Challenges
Teens are more likely to seek support when they feel heard. Regular conversations about their digital experiences help alert you to potential concerns. Show genuine interest, have open conversations, and avoid rushing to judge.
Conversation starters:
What’s something interesting you watched or read online recently? What did you think about it?
What are your favourite things to do online right now?
Is there anything you’ve seen online that made you feel uncomfortable, upset, or unsafe?
Find out more: Tips to start a conversation with your child about digital wellness
2. Have Open Discussions on Online Risks and Inappropriate Content
As your teen goes online, they may encounter various harms that may impact their well-being. This includes cyberbullying, online grooming, sexual content, misinformation, gaming and use of AI for emotional support. Have regular, open conversations to help your teen make sense of what they see and build confidence to respond appropriately.
Use the ACEDA checklist to discuss inappropriate content:
Ask your teen if they have seen inappropriate content online.
Check in with them how they felt when they saw it.
Explain why the content is inappropriate.
Discuss what they should do if they encounter inappropriate content, such as reporting to platforms and speaking to a trusted adult.
Assure them that you are always there to listen and answer their questions.
3. Set Safeguards Suitable for Your Teen’s Maturity and Habits
As your teen gains independence, continue communicating with them to understand what they are viewing online. Not all content or platforms are appropriate. You may need to regularly review the platforms they use and adjust safeguards to match their maturity level, and maintain a safe online environment for them.
Consider parental controls and privacy settings on devices, games, and streaming platforms on devices, games, and streaming platforms.
Check age ratings on apps, games, and websites.
Teach your teen to recognise and respond to unsafe or misleading content.
Encourage your teen to ask for help when they encounter online content that makes them uncomfortable.
4. Set Clear Family Norms on Device Use
Teens benefit from clear, consistent expectations. Engage your teen to co-create family norms on device use and what is appropriate online behaviour, for example, safe sharing of personal information and interacting safely online. When they’re involved in setting these norms, they’ll be more cooperative. Remember to model the positive screen behaviours you want to see in them.
Examples of clear family norms:
We will not use our screens during mealtimes.
We will not use our screens one hour before going to bed.
We balance our screen use with non-screen family activities, such as outdoor activities.
Make your own rules with the Family Screen Use Contract or the Family Tech Agreement.
5. Encourage Screen-Free Activities
Teens may turn to screens out of habit, boredom, or social pressure. Encouraging meaningful offline activities helps them balance online time with experiences that support physical health and emotional well-being.
Ideas:
Read at your neighbourhood library
Embark on hiking adventures at places like MacRitchie Reservoir or Southern Ridges.
Participate in volunteering activities like beach clean-ups.
Complete craft projects like friendship bracelets or model building.
Try cooking together where teens pick the recipes and parents assist.
Play board games.
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Additional Resources
To guide your child to stay safe and responsible online.
Using generative artificial intelligence (GenAI) tools for learning: A parent’s guide
Game On Or Game Over: What You Need To Know About Online Gaming
Been there, scrolled that! This mum battled her teen’s device use and found what really works
Beyond Like, Share, Comment: What you need to know to decide if your child is ready for social media
